by David Brenneman
"This you know, my beloved brethren. But everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger; for the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God. Therefore, putting aside all filthiness and all that remains of wickedness, in humility receive the word implanted, which is able to save your souls. But prove yourselves doers of the word, and not merely hearers who delude themselves. For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks at his natural face in a mirror; for once he has looked at himself and gone away, he has immediately forgotten what kind of person he was. But one who looks intently at the perfect law, the law of liberty, and abides by it, not having become a forgetful hearer but an effectual doer, this man will be blessed in what he does. If anyone thinks himself to be religious, and yet does not bridle his tongue but deceives his own heart, this man’s religion is worthless. Pure and undefiled religion in the sight of our God and Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their distress, and to keep oneself unstained by the world." James 1:19-27.
It's a really difficult thing this issue of anger and the human body. Anger, stress, several other emotions tend to warp reality and twist what is really real.
As followers of Jesus Christ we are not to react in the flesh as we would like but rather to see how Jesus did and do likewise.
Being mad at people and them not either knowing or realizing it is you drinking the poison you mean for them as well. It has never nor will it ever end well.
Add to this, regardless of how we rationalize it, when we stay angry we aren't forgiving and if we aren't forgiving then our sins aren't being forgiven.
We can see, and if we stop to understand, there's few times it's recorded that Jesus got angry.
Now consider this too that probably more than a few of those times and more He was being tempted to step into His powers and abilities that He set aside and judge people right then and there.
But He didn't.
His focus was on the cross.
We too should consider the cross before we launch into words or actions seeded in anger.
We very well could be unraveling days, months, or even years of work by the Spirit of God in someone's life towards salvation.
Even by proxy. Even if it's someone else our reactions could be impacting others meant for the Kingdom of God.
Not just in anger either. Our wants and desires could just as easily trip us up and ruin the work of God in the lives of people who are to be added to the Kingdom of God.
Our hobbies and recreational activities can get in the way of the work of God. Anything can if it's taking the place of a deeper relationship with Jesus. Even putting our children up on a pedestal can do the same.
Our sin nature isn't going away when we come to Christ for salvation...it's just now not calling the shots anymore. It's not in sole control of our hearts and minds anymore. It's now at war with both.
It's no surprise that there's much to be learned from guarding our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.
We cannot live a solo life in Christ.
We cannot live as though we're saved in Christ Jesus and also live life with festering anger or other negative emotions towards others.
We cannot hold grudges. We cannot create our own rules for our dealings with people. It's to only be how the Word of God says it's to be in order for the will of God for us, that is our sanctification through Godly transformation, takes place in us.
Are you wholly seeking first His Kingdom and His righteousness or only when it suits you? Only when you're done being angry at others?
"But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother shall be guilty before the court; and whoever says to his brother, ‘You good-for-nothing,’ shall be guilty before the supreme court; and whoever says, ‘You fool,’ shall be guilty enough to go into the fiery hell." Matthew 5:22.
"For if you forgive others for their transgressions, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive your transgressions." Matthew 6:14-15.
There's no other way to go through life and to be approved of by God than to live it the way the Word of God intends us to.
Note that in Matthew 18 it also says that if WE know that our brother has something against US it's on US to go to them.
Not let it fester. Not ignore it n hope it goes away or that they 'get theirs'.
We are also to pray for those who persecute us. Not any other response but prayer to start with.
Consider these things today as you go about your day.
Lastly know that no matter what it is...let go of it and let God deal with it. You'll lead a life that is going to glorify God in that which you do.
All NASB Scripture Excerpts used by permission.
New American Standard Bible
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